hi Claire, welcome. my advice, don’t wtite self-help stuff, dont put yourself in the healer-mentor-adviser role, there is plenty of that, way too much even.
Instead, tell stories, share your experiences, make novel observations, frame it in humor or irony or sentimentality, whatever comes naturally to you … and your audience will find you.
I’ve been around for 6 months, love love this place. the above seems to be working for me. amazing people here, all kinds. write from the heart and they will find you.